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This is a motivational Acronym for the word “can’t”  

C- Can  

A- Absolutely  

N- Negate  

T- True Success

—AdnELg’08—

Impossible is just a big word thrown around by small men who find it easier to live in the world they’ve been given than to explore the power they have to change it. Impossible is not a fact. It’s an opinion. Impossible is not a declaration. It’s a dare. Impossible is potential. Impossible is temporary. Impossible is nothing.

—AdnELg’08—

Really life is like riding a wave. If you a negative thinker, you will only stay at the bottom of that wave. If you think in terms of success, you will ride that wave all the way to the shore and enjoy the marvelous experience. Really, we all have the same difficulties. It is just the way one chooses to handle them that determines how high you are on that wave.

AdnELg’08—

There are two different lives an individual can have, successful or unsuccessful. Where these two strongly differ is that the successful individual envisions their goals and dreams and will strongly advance with a highly positive and persistent attitude. In the end, this individual will not have only successfully achieved his/her’s life’s desires, they will have surrounded themselves with a positive environment only allowing for a more enjoyable life to live.

—AdnELg’08—

In the school of life, you must test and try everything or your lesson will never be complete. Whether you fail or succeed at each does not matter, only the knowledge you gained by trying will be graded.

—AdnELg’08—

There is no philosophy which will help man to succeed when he is always doubting his ability to do so, and thus attracting failure. No matter how hard you work for success, if your thought is saturated with the fear of failure, it will kill your effort, neutralize your endeavors and make success impossible.

—AdnELg’08—

True friends are those that push you to achieve when you need a boost in life, stand by your side through rough times and walk ahead of you when you need direction.

—AdnELg’08—

To me, life is best defined as the past, present, and future; you can’t change life in the past, so there’s no point in dwelling on it, make the most of your present life, so there is no reason to dwell on the past nor a reason to worry about the future.

—AdnELg’08—

WHO IS YOUR OPPONENT? Your opponent is never really the player on the other side of the net, or the swimmer in the next lane, or the team on the other side of the field, or even the bar you must high jump. Your opponent is YOURSELF, that negative internal voice, that deludes you! Your level of determination… Your continuing commitment to strategize and perfect your situation and most importantly the willingness to allow yourself the power to be in control of that voice. 

—AdnELg’08—

 I have learned that success lies not in the destination, but in how you choose to take your journey. Success is living with integrity - in relentless pursuit of whatever it is that you are truly passionate about. What does this mean? It means that if you have spent every moment of your life striving to realize your absolute full potential in every way possible, then, and only then, can you consider yourself a success. Don’t ever shy away from this success for fear of stepping outside your comfort zone or challenging the norm.

—AdnELg’08—

Reasons Women prefer Married Men for Love, Marriage or Sex..

1) He is a Challenge: Getting a married man signifies a triumph of one woman over another woman. What makes him the ultimate catch to her could be his experience, confidence and authority. He’s a trophy catch. To have him, is about making the impossible. Many women like to grab what belongs to another woman. Jealousy or revenge can be some reasons why women go for already married men.

2) A Married Man has all the answers: Many women feel that a married man compared to a bachelor can meet her emotional or material needs in a better manner and have the answers to all her problems as he is more experienced in handling it.

3) Forbidden Fruit: The society is not very supportive of women who grab another woman’s man. A hooked and booked man is like a forbidden temptation which makes him irresistibly attractive to a woman. For many the food on someone else’s plate always looks and tastes better than what they are having. It is the normal human tendency to crave for what you can’t have. For some women having a married man at their beck and call increases self esteem.

4) No Strings: A Married Man is an ideal candidate for Women who are Career oriented and do not wish to get married but want sex. When you pick someone clearly unavailable, you never have to struggle with real commitment and its risks and vulnerabilities.

5) Married Men are good at Bed: Many women feel that married men with a lot of sexual experience are a better catch than a bachelor who may be inexperienced. For some a married man is someone with whom they can indulge in their fantasies and who could provide a great time.

6) Wild attraction: Some married men are irresistible and full of charm and love playing games. Many women find it difficult to resist the vibes send by such men.

7) Can’t find Eligible Single Men: Eligible single men are becoming scarce. One may be picking married men in order to beat the competition.

8) It may be Love: Love can happen to anyone. As the popular saying goes ‘love is blind’. And when someone is in love the fact that the object of love is already married is not going to matter much.

9) Mate Copying: Many women tend to believe that if another woman is either after a man or with a man, there must be something he possesses that’s worthy of pursuit.

10) Addicted to Sex or Paid for: Some women just want it with whoever is providing it. They don’t care if the man is hooked, booked or unavailable for commitment.

—AdnELg’08—

Life and Love’s Unending Journey..

   Love should always remain hopeful and positive in the difficult journey that follows along life’s “bumpy detours and highways”. Love should never lead dreamers astray, left to stumble and stammer along the “narrow muddy paths” of unfulfilled love, nor leave them alone to pass the dark and shadowy graveyards on the “lonely boulevards” of broken hearts, strewn with unkept promises and shattered dreams of “what was to be”.  

        Love should always be alert and avoid the uncompromising gray sidewalk of the “two way street” of opposite direction and conflict and seek the sunny “one way street” of like attraction, goals, aims, purposes and desires.  

        So always drive on the “high road” on life’s golden carpet down the “yellow brick road” to love and life’s grand “promenades” and elegant “thoroughfares,” leaving together to follow and smell the sweet scents and fragrances that waif and rise to greet and linger in the air.

—AdnElg’08—

getting to the top is not always easy..

The heart breaks

The trust is lost

The tears sting and yet

The face is what hurts

But in time…  

The heart finds its pieces

The trust is not lost

But left…

The tears have stopped

And the face has healed.

—AdnELg’08—

People will hate you, love you, inspire you, depress you, laugh at you, laugh with you, deny you, push you, pressure you, befriend you, hurt you, take you, break you; just don’t ever let anyone MAKE YOU..

—AdnELg’08—

 I just wanted to tell you I hated you. Through all of the years you’ve told me what to do and told me I was wrong when I wanted it that way. Well now, here’s what I have to say, “Thank you!” You turned my life into something with use. I’m the fire and you’re the one that lights my fuse.

—AdnELg’08—

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